Saturday, April 12, 2014

Adjourning



When I think about groups that I have been in there are a lot of groups that I have been a part of.  When I was in high school I was a part of the girls basketball team.  My senior year there was 7 seniors on the time.  All 7 of us met in 7th grade and played together on our school team, fall league team, spring league team and summer league for 6 years.  2 of the girls I met on my first day of kindergarten.  We all had the goal our senior year that we wanted to go to State and that we all wanted to continue playing basketball after our high school careers were over with.   Our season ended with us going to State and placing and all 7 of us were offered some type of basketball scholarship.  Some of decided not to continue playing after high school even with offers to continue to play.  Leaving high school was hard because it was going to be a change and something new.  Leaving this group of girls was even harder.   I had been with these girls more than I had been with my own family members due to our travel and game schedule over the 4 years of high school.  We a banquet after the season.  We were able to gather as a team and each of us seniors were able to speak to our teammates and family members that were there.  We were able to personnally thank everyone and share are favorite memories.  I think that this is important to be able to have closure in a group whether it is face to face, by email or a phonecall. 

To be honest when I leave Walden I think that it will be easy to leave.  I have not formed relationships with my colleagues that are meaningful to me.  I think that if our classes would have been face to face or even telephonically a different type of relationship would have been formed and I would have had more of a connection with my classmates. 

Adjourning with any group is important because it brings closure to myself indvidually.

2 comments:

  1. I feel the same way as you. I don't really talk to a lot of people that I gradated high school with that I was really close to. It is hard to leave something familiar to go to the unknown. I haven't made any real connections with anyone in our classes. Life keeps me busy and it is hard enough to just get online and get my homework done some weeks. Say good-bye is hard when you become close to someone only to me.

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  2. Malinda,
    Thank you for your detailed post that you shared throughout the course. Thank you for responding to my post as well. I wish you the best.

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